For men, the concern may be that they will somehow be replaced by a sex toy. However, women prefer intimacy over orgasm, so men should see a toy as a helpful tool, not a threat. After all, if he can get her off with a toy, she will remember that experience as an intimate moment with her partner. Men should also remember that 70% of women cannot orgasm from penetration alone. So clitoral stimulation before and during sex using a vibrator, is a great way to satisfy her, allowing both partners to orgasm together.
Women may worry that a sex toy will take away from the intimacy of being together. But rather than seeing a sex toy as a distraction, she should view it as something she and her partner can share together. Fulfilling fantasies can enhance the relationship and emotional connection, so sex toys can be seen as a tool for creating more intimacy together.
